Introduction — When a Spiritual Journey Enters the Realm of Relationships “וַיֵּשֶׁב יַעֲקֹב…” — “And Yaakov settled.” With these quiet words, the parsha opens a new chapter in Yaakov’s life. Vayishlach ended with Yaakov standing in the aftermath of his long night of struggle, renamed and reshaped. He emerges as Yisrael — someone who has faced his fear honestly, confronted his past directly, and discovered a strength that comes from remaining present in the very place he onc

Introduction Parshat Vayeitzei ended with Yaakov standing at the edge of return — shaped by twenty years of exile, refined through hidden struggle, and steadied by God’s quiet guidance in the shadows of Lavan’s home. What began as fear and dislocation slowly became a journey of inner formation. The Sfas Emes writes that exile is not merely distance from home, but a descent into parts of oneself revealed only when familiar structures fall away. In Lavan’s house, Yaakov learned

“Vayeitzei Yaakov”: Leaving With an Unsettled Heart “וַיֵּצֵא יַעֲקֹב מִבְּאֵר שָׁבַע וַיֵּלֶךְ חָרָנָה” — “And Yaakov left Be’er Sheva and went toward Charan.” (Bereishit 28:10) The parsha opens with a deceptively simple movement — Yaakov leaves. But behind that understated description lies one of the most emotionally charged departures in Sefer Bereishit. Yaakov is not setting out like Avraham, driven by divine command, nor like Yitzchak, grounded in the familiar security o

I. Rivkah’s Question — The First Act of Attunement “ וַיִּתְרֹצְצוּ הַבָּנִים בְּקִרְבָּהּ… וַתֵּלֶךְ לִדְרֹשׁ אֶת ה’. ”, “The children struggled within her… and she went to inquire of Hashem.”  (Bereishit 25:22) Parshat Toldot begins with a moment of inner confusion that Rivkah cannot ignore. What she experiences is not ordinary discomfort; it is a kind of turmoil that presses for understanding. Chazal describe the struggle as something that “pursued” her — movement that was

I. When a Life Teaches Beyond Words “וַיִּהְיוּ חַיֵּי שָׂרָה מֵאָה שָׁנָה וְעֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה וְשֶׁבַע שָׁנִים — שְׁנֵי חַיֵּי שָׂרָה.” “And the life of Sarah was one hundred years and twenty years and seven years — the years of Sarah’s life.” (Bereishit 23:1) The Torah could have stated simply that Sarah lived one hundred and twenty-seven years. Instead, it repeats the phrase “the years of Sarah’s life,” suggesting that there was something whole and complete about the way s